Sex can be a powerful emotional
experience and health-improving tool, and it’s certainly not only for the
young. Sex matters throughout your life, and can actually take on an increased
importance in your senior years. For older men and women alike, the benefits of
good sex can be extensive: it can increase circulation, reduce anxiety, release
painkilling endorphins—and help to relax and satisfy.
Naturally,
senior sex can present challenges, and you may feel discouraged
by physical or emotional issues in your
way. But these problems are not insurmountable; with better understanding
and
an open mind, you can enjoy a gratifying sex life well into your later years.Good sex at any age
The
need for intimacy is ageless. And studies now confirm that no matter what your
gender, you can enjoy sex for as long as you wish. Naturally, sex at 70 or 80
may not be like it is at 20 or 30—but in some ways it can be better. As a
senior, you may feel wiser than you were in your earlier years, and know what
works best for you when it comes to your sex life. Older people often have a
great deal more self-confidence and self-awareness, and feel released from the
unrealistic ideals of youth and prejudices of others. And with children grown
and work less demanding, couples are better able to relax and enjoy one another
without the old distractions.
For a number
of reasons, though, many seniors worry about sex in their later years, and end
up turning away from sexual encounters. Some older adults feel embarrassed,
either by their aging bodies or by their “performance,” while others are
affected by illness or loss of a partner. Without accurate information and an
open mind, a temporary situation can turn into a permanent one. You can avoid
letting this happen by being proactive. Whether you’re seeking to restart or
improve your sex life, it’s important to be ready to try new things, and to ask
for professional help if necessary. There is much you can do to compensate for the
normal changes that come with aging. With proper information and support, your
later years can be an exciting time to explore both the emotional and sensual
aspects of your sexuality.
Tips for better senior sex: Accept & celebrate who you are
Sex in later
life may not be the same as it was in your youth—but that doesn’t have to be a
bad thing. In fact, sex can be more enjoyable than ever. As you find yourself
embracing your older identity, you can:
- Reap the benefits of experience. The independence and self-confidence that comes with age can be very attractive to your spouse or potential partners. No matter your gender, you may feel better about your body at 72 than you did at 22. And it is likely that you now know more about yourself and what makes you excited and happy. Your experience and self-possession can make your sex life exciting for you and your partner.
- Look ahead. As you enter your senior years, try to let go of expectations for your sex life. Do your best to avoid dwelling on how things are different. If you enjoyed an active sex life in your younger years, there’s no reason to slow down with age, unless you want to. A positive attitude and open mind can go a long way toward improving your sex life, especially in your later years.
- Love and appreciate your older self. Naturally, your body is going through changes as you age. You look and feel differently than you did when you were younger. But if you can accept these changes as natural and hold your head up high, you’ll not only feel better, you’ll also be more attractive to others. Confidence and honesty garner the respect of others—and can be sexy and appealing.
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